Wednesday night, I hosted a birthday party at the Italianksi Quartal and I had to limit my party to 20 people. How grateful am I that 20 people would actually come to celebrate my birthday. Most of the people were actually from my work, but that being said, the rest were people that like me, care about me, and enjoy being around me. The night ended rather tame as everyone went home afterward, and we didn’t end up going to karaoke, nor a club. But, when I got home, my energy was sapped from this back injury. I was ready for bed only moments after arriving home.
Then, yesterday, our other Native Speaking English Teacher told me that he was going to have a Women’s Day Party. It was up to me to invite some people. I invited about 20 people, and 15 girls showed up. 13 of those girls were invited by me. That was just amazing as far as I was concerned. One of the girls was joking that I just invited all of the single girls in Odessa.
I did invite a girl that I had dated along with a couple of other girls that are currently interested in me. So, I knew that there might be fireworks. There were fireworks, but the fireworks didn’t happen until today. As the girls were leaving, there is one girl that I had dated, a tall slender girl that I had liked a lot. But, now, she seems to have completely fallen for me 6 months after we first met. But, my feelings for her left me in November. At the end of the party, she took another girl that she had met at the party to a nightclub after our party. This morning, she told me that it was probably a bad idea that I had invited her to that party. She tried to tell me that this other girl was too good for me, and now she sees that I am a user and she warned me that I better not use this other girl.
I thought that was pretty funny since I will not end up with that second girl. Perhaps that second girl likes me, but not enough to actually date me. And, I don’t hide information from people in general, and definitely don’t hide information from girls.. I don’t have sex with numerous people like this girl was doing when we first met back in September of last year. I was totally open to being with her long term from about mid- September all the way through later November. That is when I saw her walking down the street with another guy hand in hand, after she had just spent the entire weekend at my house, and she had just told me that she was busy that Monday evening and that was why she couldn’t spend time with me.
Knowing what I know now, I would still have invited all of them to that party. I had a great time, and almost everyone had a great time. Also, I was testing this girl out to see how she would react in a situation where she saw other girls that were attracted to me. How does she react in a party situation also. I will always have people around me and I will always have other attracted to me. Will a girl get jealous, go crazy, or be able to accept this type of situation and mix in with others easily?? That is what i need to know.
Everything will be ok. I know that. I am sure that lots of guys would be excited to be in my shoes, but I am not. As I have repeatedly stated, this is not a competition. I am not looking to get laid. I am only looking for a partner that is close enough to what I want and need – and that I am attracted to and passionate about. That is all. I hope you all had a wonderful Women’s Day. Honor the ladies in your life gentleman. They are all worth it.
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