Ukrainian Russian Brides - Day to marriage.
Today was a rather relaxed version of a busy day. I only taught three classes at school which is the least amount of classes I’ve ever taught on a Saturday. I have taught every Saturday but three in my three plus years at this school. I had a really fun communication class with a room full of 7 Ukrainian girls and 2 guys. I love when classes turn out like that. I promise you, all 7 Ukrainian girls were under the age of 30 and good looking. And, you wonder why I like living here and being surrounded by Ukrainian girls?
When I got back from school, my visitor was still at my house. I didn’t stay home long, I left to visit my friend and website guru in a neighborhood called Tairovo. When I left, she was lying in my bed passed out to the world. I spent the afternoon and evening at a restaurant in Tairovo called Mario’s. There is another of the same restaurant located in the center too. I like this particular restaurant very much, it feels like home. I had the waitress flirting with me, and I tried to get a date with her. She even agreed, but she wouldn’t give me her phone number, so I dropped interest. In English, when a guy gets rejected by a Ukrainian girl, we say, "He got shot down!” Similar to an airplane that was shot down by a fighter jet. I should have trusted my intuition because I thought another waitress was more my type of girl.
Another friend joined us at about 730 or so because he’s interested in learning about websites and computer stuff. So, we ended up talking, hanging out, talking business, and telling stories, and laughing until about 1130. When I got back to my flat, this Ukrainian girl was still here. She had eaten the lunch I had left at midday. She had drank one of the two beers I had had in the fridge and was working on the second, and she was on page 50 of my book.
Almost as soon as I walked in, she started in on me and my book. She started criticizing and she wouldn’t stop. In fact, she just kept repeating the same criticisms for more than an hour until I finally told her that she needed to stop and that I had had enough of her shit. This hard headed Ukrainian girl said she couldn’t believe I would write such a simple book. She said that she saw nothing new or special in my book. She said this book basically was just telling English speaking men to "beware!” She said she realizes now that I was not as open minded as she thought I had been. She said that an intelligent man would never write such a simple book.
She continued, telling me she had had an American boyfriend and he was truly clever and he would never write anything like this. She was on a roll and didn’t stop there, saying that I am just like every other American man she had met and that only weak American men come to Ukraine looking for Ukrainian girls. They come to Ukraine looking for Ukrainian girls because they are sad, lonely, failures who couldn’t possibly have found love or they couldn’t find good girls in their own country.
This Ukrainian girl wasn’t done there. She then lambasted me for trying to educate these men and help to prevent these men from being deceived, saying that Western men didn’t deserve help. She feels that 99% of the men who come here need to be slapped around because they are just bastards who come here for Ukrainian girls and to have sex with easy Ukrainian girls. She questioned my character for trying to help men who come here for easy sex with Ukrainian girls.
I obviously put my foot down and really tried to hold my tongue. I of course, stood up for myself, but you see, I also understand trying to argue with someone like this is absolutely fruitless. A person like this is not open to a new point of view. A person like this cannot listen anyway. Beginning in chapter six of my book, it talks about the differences in thinking between Ukrainian girls, Russian girls and western girls. In chapter seven, it talks about the behavioral differences between Ukrainian girls, Russian girls and western girls. In chapter eight, it gives specific mistakes in communication that frequently occur between Ukrainian girls, Russian girls, and western men. These are where the pearls of wisdom lie in my book, but she never bothered to read that part before starting to criticize me, criticize my book, criticize my people, and criticize anything or anyone else that might pop into her pea brained mind. I really didn’t want to argue with someone who cannot hear me anyway, and I didn’t feel the need to defend myself or the book. Besides, why would I have to defend myself or justify my time, effort, and energy.
I know a lot of people that have great ideas and great experiences and they never actually takes those ideas and experiences and turn them into something. My goal and intention is completely positive. I am trying to help men searching for Ukrainian girls & Russian girls. So, what is wrong with that?
To shut her up, I needed to change the subject. She had told me previously that she wanted to make blini. Blini is the Ukrainian / Russian version of a pancake. So, I made her pancakes from scratch. Of course, the conversation continued while making her pancakes. Unfortunately, I didn’t have any baking soda or baking powder, so my pancakes weren’t perfect, but they turned out pretty good. I added a scoop of chocolate protein as well as some fresh raspberries to the batter. I blended the batter and made the pancakes. She liked them. She couldn’t stop eating them. I wish I had had some maple syrup. You cannot get any maple syrup in Ukraine. I remember eating Mrs. Buttersworth with my pancakes and french toast growing up. Oh, what I wouldn’t give for a nice breakfast at Denny’s right now.