How to relationship with Ukrainian Girl
I had a date last night with a new Ukrainian girl I met on Valentine’s Day and I have to say, I was pleasantly surprised. We had a little sushi and chatted for more than two hours. Her English is great and she learned to speak English on her own. Her independence and inner strength scare me a little bit, but that is a small price to pay to actually spend time with someone who has very similar views and lots in common with me. We even talked about the book The Five Love Languages. I told her I had given the basics to my ex and she had done the same thing with her ex. She told me he had actually read the book, underlined portions, and used those underlined passages to criticize and attack her behavior within the relationship. She was shocked and just couldn’t grasp how he had arrived at those thoughts and conclusions from what she had given him. He really couldn’t understand or keep in mind that her gift to him was given from the most positive of intentions.
So, I gave her my love languages in order and can happily say that she told me hers as well. We now have a map of how to make each other happy. I don’t know what is going to happen, but I can say with confidence that I would gladly spend more time with this girl. If you are wondering, my Love Languages are in order 1) Quality Time, 2) Acts of Service, 3) Touch, 4) Words of Affirmation, and 5) Gifts. Hers were 1) Words of Affirmation, 2) Quality Time, 3) Touch, 4) Acts of Service, and 5) Gifts. However, it was cute to see her thinking for quite a while trying to figure out if she was accurate with her own.
Whether she was perfectly correct on her own were not a big deal too me. I told her all people are dynamic. Our preferences can change, or as we become more aware, we realize what our own truth is. For me, I am certain of my truth, but just how true it is has changed in the last year. Above all things, in a relationship with a Ukrainian girl or Russian girl, communication is most important for me. So, being with someone who shares her thoughts and feelings without me having to dig for them is HUGELY important and satisfying. I don’t need a Ukrainian girl to tell me that she loves me every minute of every day, but I do need a Ukrainian girl to let me know where she is, what she might be doing, and when she thinks she might be back. And, if her plans change, I’d like her to please let me know. That’s all.
I was actually asleep by 11pm because my back pain has been extremely bad and had just taken every ounce of energy out of me. The moment I got home, I brushed my teeth, and lied down, I thought I was in heaven. ))) Have a great Sunday!!!